On Saturday, September 18th, Brian Edward McKay, loving husband, and father, went home to be with his Lord at the age of 55. Brian was born on May 22nd,1966 in Bellingham WA to Ron and Penny (Swan) McKay. He grew up on the family farm in Ferndale, WA with his 2 brothers and sister. He received his Bachelor of Science in Animal Science from Washington State University in 1989 and was a member of the Alpha Gamma Rho fraternity. On September 2nd,1989 he married Judy Stacey. Brian was a thoughtful, fun husband and their friendship was apparent to anyone who was around them. Brian was part of the family farm until they moved to Idaho in 2002. In 1993 Brian became a dad to son, Spencer (age 28) and a then to daughter Hailey (age 19) in 2002.
Brian was an involved dad, always caring, challenging, playing, laughing, and spending quality time with his kids. He was never too busy to work on school projects or build pine cars for the derby, never too manly to not play “Pretty Pretty Princess” -tiara and all, and always had time for great conversations. Brian led his family spiritually and church involvement, loving people well and walking with the Lord were modeled for them.
He is also known for his servant’s heart. He found great joy in helping his family, church, neighbors, and honestly everyone he came across. Brian loved children. He served as Commander and Director of the children’s Awana ministry for 14 years at Summit Church where they have fellowshipped and worshipped since moving to Boise. He also had a heart for missions, making several trips to Mexico to share the love of Jesus with the people there. Brian just plainly loved people – and if you knew him – he loved you well. Absolutely no one was a stranger to Brian because you became his friend after one conversation. If you knew Brian, you knew who he served and talking about his relationship with Jesus Christ was a part of his regular conversations. He was bold for Jesus and modeled genuine love and compassion for all those around him.
He also had a love for the outdoors and enjoyed climbing, camping, and skiing. Working on his 1969 Camaro-the first car he ever owned and restoring Grandad McKay’s antique 1937 John Deere tractor were also hobbies he enjoyed.
Brian brought light and laughter to his workplace. His friendships with his coworkers brought him much happiness. He loved working with his customers and especially helping the animals in need.
Brian will be remembered for his compassion, playful spirit, quick wit, work ethic, patience, and loyalty, but his most memorable impact was in the genuine relationships he formed with those around him.
Brian is survived by his wife, Judy, his two children, Spencer and Hailey, his parents, Ron & Penny McKay, brothers Greg (Jennifer), Glen (Gina), sister Barb (Mark), numerous nephews and nieces, mother-in-law Else Stacey, and sister-in-law Kim (Zlatko), and more friends than anyone could ever count.
A Celebration of Life service will be held on Friday, September 24th at 2 pm. It will be held at Summit Church, 10375 W Overland Road, Boise, ID 83709.
Donations in Brian’s memory may be sent to (Keith & Deborah Myers with International Ministries https://www.internationalministries.org/author/dk-myers/
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Rick Hills says
September 21, 2021 at 4:30 pmDear Judy, Spencer and Hailey,
Words can’t express the sadness I felt when I heard this tragic news. Brian was truly one of the most wonderful Christian men I have ever had the privilege of calling friend. You are and will continue to be in my prayers in the coming days and weeks as I ask God to provide comfort and healing. It’s comforting to know that he is now with his savior and that one day we will see him again.
Our love and prayers,
Rick and Gayla Hills
David Berthon says
September 22, 2021 at 8:15 amJudy, Spencer and Hailey (and the entire McKay and Stacey families) – I am so very truly sorry for your loss. As I read the obituary, it so accurately spoke of Brian, all of his life. While I have not seem Brain in 2 maybe 3 decades, it is exactly as I remember him – I kind person to the core.
Jessica and David Canfield says
September 22, 2021 at 3:57 pmJudy, Spencer and Hailey,
David, the kids and I all want to tell you how very much we love you and how much We loved Brian. These words you wrote about him are so true! I can’t help but chuckle about some of our conversations at Awana and I remember he would come and gel-in with hand sanitizer after being around those amazing, wonderful but germ filled kids and pretend to put it all over his body all with a smile on his wonderful face!🤣🤣. He really did make friends with everyone he met! I don’t even like to think about the void that has been left in your lives without Brian in it, but I know Jesus is holding you all in his arms and he will care for you and bring you peace as you press into Him and let Him comfort you. We want to be there for you any way we can so please let us know of any need! Know that from the moment we heard of Brian’s illness, we were on our knees many times a day pleading for his healing but most importantly for God’s will for you all. Can you blame God for wanting such a great guy up in Heaven bringing joy all around?? It’s just so hard to let him go, but oh the day when we will get to see him again!! We love you!!!💕💕
Carol A Barbo says
September 23, 2021 at 3:55 pmOur deepest sympathy to Judy & family, Ron & Penny & family, Denny, Kim & Linda & Bryan & Deanna
et all. Gone too soon and always in our hearts. The Barbo’s, Carol & Gage
Jadiel Rodriguez says
September 24, 2021 at 6:08 pmMy deepest condolences. I was in shock to hear the early loss of Brian. It was a great honor to get to know Brian over 3 years of working together. He always talked about his amazing family. He will truly be truly missed.
Tish de la Bretonne and Julia de la Bretonne says
September 28, 2021 at 12:56 pmJudy, Spencer, and Hailey,
Our hearts are breaking for you during this time of loss and grief. We pray for peace and comfort to wash over you, knowing you’re loved and deeply cared for, as was Brian. In our sadness and prayer of your loss, Julia and I have also shared sweet memories of good times we had with “The McKay’s – as Spencer and Julia became friends, your family welcomed us in and made us feel like we were part of your family, too. Our hearts are with you now and will continue to be. May Brian Rest In Peace.
Tish de la Bretonne and Julia de la Bretonne says
September 28, 2021 at 1:03 pmJudy, Hailey, and Spencer
Our hearts are breaking for you during this time of loss and grief. We pray for peace and comfort to wash over you, knowing you’re loved and deeply cared for, as was Brian. In our sadness and prayer of your loss, Julia and I have also shared sweet memories of good times we had with “The McKay’s – as Spencer and Julia became friends, your family welcomed us in and made us feel like we were part of your family, too. Our hearts are with you now and will continue to be. May Brian Rest In Peace.